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DonnaMaria O'Connor

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DonnaMaria O'Connor, LMFT

California

California LMFT - Relationships and Anger

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, California / 42485
  • NPI1508606864
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationCalifornia

About

  • Relationship skills
  • Parenting support
  • CBT and Gottman

About DonnaMaria

DonnaMaria O'Connor is a California LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) with about 20 years of clinical experience. She works with adults who are facing relationship strain, parenting pressures, family conflict, anger issues, and major life changes. DonnaMaria focuses on practical steps people can use to manage tension and improve how they relate to others.

Her background centers on relational work and communication. She often helps people untangle conflicts that come up in blended families, during divorce and separation, and while caregiving for others. She also addresses domestic violence concerns and the stress that caregivers carry.

In sessions she draws on approaches that focus on thoughts, behavior, and concrete skills. That includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot and shift unhelpful thinking, the Gottman Method for relationship skills, and Solution-Focused Therapy to set immediate, doable goals. The emphasis is on realistic changes that reduce anger and improve daily interactions.

DonnaMaria frames clients as the experts on their own lives and helps them identify strengths to move forward. Her role is to help people name patterns, practice different ways of responding, and track what actually changes. She uses straightforward conversations and exercises rather than abstract language.

People who want clear steps to manage temper, repair communication, or handle family transitions may find her practical style useful. Before booking, confirm the current session options and formats available.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

DonnaMaria commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method in her work. CBT helps people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors that fuel anger or anxiety. It often focuses on concrete exercises and homework to practice new responses between sessions. The Gottman Method centers on communication skills and conflict-management techniques that reduce reactive patterns and rebuild connection in relationships.

Choosing the best approach is part of the therapeutic process. She will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. That includes checking in about what techniques feel useful and adjusting the plan as progress is tracked.

The original biography does not specify session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. Many people find online sessions helpful for fitting therapy into a busy life, keeping appointments on workdays, or doing shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Online work can still include skill practice, behavioral experiments, and communication exercises adapted to remote sessions, and the therapist will shape sessions to match practical aims rather than theoretical detail.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changes

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She works with relationship strain, family conflict, parenting challenges, anger, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include blended family issues, caregiver stress, communication problems, divorce and separation, and domestic violence.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses practical, goal-oriented sessions that emphasize skill building and behavior change. Conversations focus on naming patterns, practicing new responses, and tracking what works.

How much experience does she have?

She has approximately 20 years of professional experience as a therapist. That background includes extensive relational and family-focused work.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - in the state of California. Her practice is located in California.

Which languages are offered?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options with the booking system before scheduling.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and is tied to a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Exact pricing is provided during sign-up.

How do I begin working together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session. That process connects you to the initial appointment steps.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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