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Monica Oleksy

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Monica Oleksy, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Anxiety and anger support

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 241016
  • Experience10 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Client-centred approach
  • Mindfulness techniques
  • Solution-focused work

About Monica

Monica Oleksy is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with ten years of experience. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, parenting strain, low self-esteem, depression, and anger. Sessions are offered in English and Portuguese and she accepts international clients.

Monica believes counselling is a space to talk through hard feelings and to make sense of them. She listens and helps people name what is happening, without judgement. Together with a client she looks at patterns that cause repeated frustration or resentment and practical ways to respond differently.

Her approach draws on client-centred work, where the person’s perspective guides each session. She also uses narrative and solution-focused ideas to map problems and spot small changes that make a difference. Mindfulness techniques are offered when helpful to calm the body and steady the mind.

Monica pays attention to cultural difference and how background shapes reactions and relationships. She aims to help people find clearer communication, manage control issues, and rebuild self-trust after painful experiences. Areas she commonly helps with include grief, trauma and abuse, sleep and eating problems, and coping with life changes.

Practical concerns are part of the work. Monica can support people facing panic attacks, social anxiety, post-traumatic stress, or compassion fatigue. If a specific issue isn’t listed she invites people to describe it so together they can see if counselling is a good fit.

How sessions work

How her therapeutic approaches work online

Client-centred therapy puts the person’s experience at the heart of each session. The counsellor listens, reflects and follows what matters most to the client, which helps when anger feels confusing or overwhelming. Narrative therapy looks at the stories people tell about themselves and the situation; rewriting those stories can reduce shame and blame and open up new choices. Mindfulness therapy offers simple practices to notice physical tension and interrupt automatic reactions, which can be useful for managing bursts of anger.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is part of the work and happens collaboratively. The counsellor and client discuss goals and preferences, try different techniques, and agree what helps most. That shared planning makes it easier to adjust the focus if responses change over time.

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm the current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, cut down travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when that suits a schedule. It can also let people use audio-only sessions if they prefer less screen time, or video when face-to-face feeling matters more. Registered or accredited professionals can help arrange sessions that balance practical needs with therapeutic goals.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Portuguese

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Can Monica help with workplace anger and snapping at loved ones?

Yes. She lists anger alongside stress, relationship strain and communication problems as areas she works with and can help people address those patterns.

What style of therapy does she use in sessions?

She uses client-centred therapy as a foundation, and mixes in narrative, mindfulness and solution-focused methods to explore feelings and try practical changes.

How much experience does she have?

Monica has ten years of experience working with a range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma and anger.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Are sessions available in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English and Portuguese, and she accepts international clients.

Which session formats are used?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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