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Selma Wesley

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Selma Wesley, LCSW

Missouri

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Anger and Relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, Missouri / 001989
  • NPI1841485968
  • Experience24 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMissouri

About

  • ACT techniques
  • CBT strategies
  • Mindfulness practice

About Selma

Selma Wesley is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Missouri with 24 years of experience. She sees people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, parenting challenges, grief, addiction concerns, anger, and related life changes. She also pays attention to how prejudice and discrimination affect wellbeing.

Her background includes home and community-based counseling and work in varied service settings. That variety shaped a practical approach to common problems like career setbacks, intimacy issues, and coping after trauma or loss. She has worked with youth, teenagers, and young adults and brings that experience to sessions when relevant.

Sessions focus on clear goals and techniques that people can use between meetings. She draws from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, client-centered approaches, and mindfulness practices. Conversations aim to identify patterns that fuel anger or anxiety and to try different ways of responding.

In practice she keeps sessions interactive and solution-minded. Expect to talk through recent problems, experiment with small changes, and review what helps in daily life. The work often mixes skills training with reflection on values and relationships.

People who are dealing with prejudice or discrimination receive attention to how those experiences affect mood and behavior. Her approach is straightforward and focused on concrete steps people can use to manage strong emotions and improve important relationships.

How sessions work

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and choosing actions that match personal values. It helps when anger or anxiety gets in the way of the life someone wants to lead. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical techniques to challenge patterns that fuel anger or depression. Mindfulness practice trains attention to notice strong emotions early so they can be managed rather than acted on impulsively.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will review goals, try methods in session, and adjust plans based on what feels useful. Clients and therapist work together to mix skills, reflection, and relationship-focused work until a practical fit emerges.

The original profile did not specify which online session formats are used. Before booking, confirm the current options for remote sessions. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, shorten check-ins when schedules are tight, and allow for using audio only when bandwidth is limited. It also supports consistent follow-up and practicing skills between sessions without requiring travel.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Prejudice and discrimination

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

24+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting issues, addictions, grief, trauma and abuse, anger, self-esteem, career problems, bipolar concerns, and coping with life changes. Prejudice and discrimination are also listed as an area of focus.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her approach is interactive and client-centered, using goal-focused techniques from CBT, ACT, EFT, and mindfulness. Sessions tend to mix skills practice with reflection on values and relationships.

How much experience does she have?

She has 24 years of clinical experience working in home and community settings and other service environments.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker - MO LCSW - practicing in Missouri.

Which languages are supported and does she work internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list specific session formats. Confirm the current session options before booking to know whether video or phone meetings are available.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to get started?

Click the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Selma Wesley

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