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Tinia Holleman-Soto

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Tinia Holleman-Soto, LMFT

California

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Anger and Relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, California / 51834
  • NPI1265668495
  • Experience15 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationCalifornia

About

  • CBT ideas
  • Attachment focus
  • Existential themes

About Tinia

Tinia Holleman-Soto is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 15 years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, relationship pain, parenting strain, grief, anger, and other mood and life-change concerns. Sessions are described in everyday terms and focus on practical steps people can use right away.

She earned a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Southern California and began her career working as a behaviorist with very young children who had developmental delays. That early work involved close collaboration with speech and occupational therapists and regional support agencies. Over time she expanded into school and community settings, providing care for children, teens, and families alongside psychiatrists, social workers, and case managers.

Her clinical experience includes supporting people dealing with depression, anxiety, ADHD, trauma and abuse, crisis situations, and parenting challenges. She has worked with survivors of sexual, physical, and domestic abuse and with families navigating developmental diagnoses. This background informs a practical, skills-based approach to emotional and relational trouble.

In sessions she uses person-centered methods, cognitive behavioral ideas, and existential themes. That means she helps people connect their thoughts, feelings, and actions, encourages honest decision-making, and aims for straightforward, useful change rather than jargon. She frames the work as a collaborative effort where the client’s goals guide each step.

Tinia keeps language plain and focuses on concrete strategies for managing reactions, improving communication, and reducing ongoing stressors. She asks people what matters most, then works with them to test small changes that can make day-to-day life feel more manageable.

How sessions work

How attachment, client-centered and CBT ideas work online

Attachment-based work focuses on patterns in close relationships. It looks at how past connections affect current reactions and helps people notice recurring interaction styles that fuel anger or withdrawal.

Client-centered methods prioritize the person’s perspective. Sessions start from what the client brings and use listening and reflection to clarify goals and next steps. This approach helps when someone wants a frank, nontechnical conversation about what’s not working.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, identifies unhelpful thoughts and links them to emotions and actions. It offers concrete tools and small experiments people can try between sessions to reduce reactivity and manage stress more effectively.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about their goals, symptoms, and preferences and together decide which methods to emphasize. That collaborative process may shift over time as needs change.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online care can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten commute time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce technical demands when bandwidth is limited. Licensed professionals generally adapt exercises and communication to work over distance while keeping the focus on practical change and better day-to-day management.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, grief, parenting concerns, anger, depression, addiction, ADHD, and related mood and life-change problems.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses person-centered, cognitive behavioral, and existential approaches to help people link thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and make practical changes.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 15 years of experience, including work with children, teens, families, and multidisciplinary teams in school and community settings.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California and practices there.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the US work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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