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Wendie Vanderwater

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Wendie Vanderwater, LCSW

Montana

LCSW - Anger and relationship concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, Montana / BBH-LCSW-LIC-32399
  • NPI1619438074
  • Experience22 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMontana

About

  • DBT and CBT
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Practical homework

About Wendie

Wendie Vanderwater is a Montana LCSW with 22 years of clinical experience helping adults manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, anger, and related concerns. She works with people who want straightforward help for issues like low self-esteem, grief, parenting challenges, career stress, ADHD, and mood concerns.

She uses practical, evidence-informed tools and adapts them to what each person prefers. Wendie asks questions to understand what a client needs and then suggests approaches to try. She invites people to choose how they want to work - with homework, journaling, mindfulness practice, or a more conversational focus.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy are often combined in her work. Those approaches are used to identify unhelpful thinking, build emotion-regulation skills, and practice new behaviors. Mindfulness practices and brief motivational techniques are added when they fit a client's goals.

Wendie describes her style as direct and nonjudgmental. She encourages small, concrete actions outside of sessions - for example volunteering or joining a group - to add positive structure to daily life. Clients who prefer clear, practical steps tend to find this approach useful.

Her background includes long-term use of DBT skills and regular incorporation of mindfulness and journaling. She helps people experiment with different tools until they find what eases their recurring anger, anxiety, or relationship difficulties.

How sessions work

Approaches used in remote sessions

Wendie commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy in her work. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying small experiments to change thinking and behavior; it can help with anger that follows repeated patterns or negative self-talk. DBT teaches specific emotion-regulation and distress-tolerance skills to manage strong feelings and reduce reactive responses in relationships and at work. She also brings mindfulness practices into sessions, using brief exercises and journaling to help people notice feelings before they escalate. Deciding which mix of approaches to use is a collaborative process. The therapist will ask about goals, try approaches, and adjust based on what fits the client's needs and preferences. Confirm the current online session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. The focus in sessions is on practical skills, clear strategies, and developing day-to-day habits that reduce anger and improve close relationships.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Listed in

Montana

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Which anger-related issues does she address?

She works with adults on anger, relationship tension, control issues, resentment, and related concerns such as stress and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic approach like?

She blends Client-Centered, CBT, and DBT methods and often uses mindfulness and journaling. The style is direct and practical, with options for homework if the client wants it.

How much experience does she have?

She has 22 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of adult concerns and long-term use of DBT skills.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a Montana LCSW and practices with clients in Montana.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English only and she is not accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How does payment work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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