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Deborah Tommey

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Deborah Tommey, LPC

Oklahoma

Licensed Professional Counselor - Anger and Stress

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Key details

  • CredentialsLPC
  • LicenseLPC, Oklahoma / LPC06345
  • NPI1760994099
  • Experience15 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationOklahoma

About

About Deborah

Deborah Tommey is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma with 15 years of clinical experience. She works with adults 20 and older on issues such as anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, stress, anger, relationship and intimacy concerns, and caregiving challenges.

She sees clients as individuals and looks for the right method to address each problem. Sessions are conversational and straightforward. She asks what change the client wants and then chooses approaches that fit that goal.

Deborah uses person-centered methods alongside solution-focused and existential ideas. She includes mindfulness techniques when they help someone manage intense feelings. That mix is aimed at practical coping, clearer choices, and recognizing personal meaning.

She has experience running support groups and training other professionals on behavioral health topics. She also brings knowledge about aging and caregiver stress into sessions when it is relevant to a client's situation.

Deborah offers phone and video counseling and uses messaging for between-session check-ins. If a specific session format matters to you, confirm the current options before booking. Her approach is steady and practical, aimed at helping people manage anger, stressful life changes, and daily demands.

How sessions work

How Deborah’s approaches translate to online work

Deborah frequently blends client-centered work with solution-focused and mindfulness methods. Client-centered work means conversations that follow what matters most to the person and support their autonomy. Solution-focused techniques concentrate on small, concrete steps and short-term goals to reduce reactivity and build new patterns. Mindfulness practices involve simple attention and breathing strategies to lower arousal and notice triggers without acting on them.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with the client to choose methods that fit their goals, preferences, and daily responsibilities. That collaborative decision is revisited as therapy continues so tools stay practical and relevant.

The biography specifies phone and video sessions and the use of messaging for in-between notes. If the exact session formats are important to you, confirm the current options before booking. People often find remote sessions easier to fit into work breaks, less travel time, and quicker check-ins between appointments. Phone can work when bandwidth or camera use is a concern, while video can help with visual cues during emotional conversations.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger or related problems does she address?

She works with anger alongside stress, anxiety, trauma, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, and caregiver strain.

How does she approach therapy for temper and frustration?

She starts by asking what change you want and then uses person-centered, solution-focused, and mindfulness techniques to build practical coping skills.

What is her clinical background?

She has 15 years of experience and has led support groups and professional trainings in behavioral health topics.

What credentials and location does she hold?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oklahoma.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are used for counseling?

Her biography notes phone and video sessions and messaging for between-session check-ins; confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Deborah Tommey

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