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Najma Haja Alaudeen

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Najma Haja Alaudeen, AASW

Australia

AASW social worker - Anger and anxiety support

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Key details

  • CredentialsAASW
  • RegistrationAASW, Australia / 676012
  • Experience19 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Tamil
  • LocationAustralia

About

  • Anger management skills
  • CBT and ACT methods
  • Attachment-informed work

About Najma

Najma Haja Alaudeen is an AASW social worker with 19 years of experience supporting adults in Australia. She works with people who are managing stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, anger and the fallout from trauma. Conversations are plain and practical, focused on what is happening now and what can change next.

She helps people handle everyday strains like low motivation, parenting pressure and workplace burnout. She also helps with relationship difficulties, grief and addiction-related concerns. Sessions aim to produce simple, usable strategies to manage mood, impulsivity and overwhelming feelings.

Najma uses a collaborative style in sessions. She listens for how past experiences shape current reactions and then builds step-by-step coping tools. That might include noticing patterns, testing new behaviours, or practising skills between meetings.

Her approach draws on evidence-based techniques without jargon. Najma often blends acceptance and commitment ideas with cognitive-behavioural tools and attachment-based thinking. The focus is on skills that fit into everyday life so people can try small changes quickly.

People who come for help with anger or persistent resentment will work on recognising triggers, slowing reactivity and choosing different responses. The work is straightforward and practical, with attention to boundaries, communication and self-regulation. To begin, she asks about current struggles and real-life goals so sessions are useful from the first meeting.

How sessions work

Approaches you can expect and how online sessions work

Najma commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in her work. ACT focuses on clarifying values and accepting difficult thoughts while building committed action toward meaningful goals. CBT looks at thinking patterns and behaviour, teaching practical skills to reduce anxiety, manage mood and change unhelpful reactions.

She also draws on attachment-based ideas to understand how early relational patterns affect current responses, which can be helpful for anger and communication problems. Deciding which approaches to use is collaborative; Najma will help you try methods and pick what fits your goals and lifestyle.

The exact online session options are not listed in the biography, so please confirm available formats before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. If you prefer to focus on skill practice, sessions can concentrate on behavioural experiments and homework you can use between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

19+ years

Listed in

Australia

Languages

English, Tamil

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, anger, trauma and related relationship and parenting difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical, focusing on skills and small changes you can use between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

Najma has 19 years of clinical experience working with adults on mood, trauma, executive function and relational concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is listed with the AASW and is based in Australia.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Tamil.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session formats before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are offered.

How does cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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