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Rebecca Stokes

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Rebecca Stokes, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Stress and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 405541
  • Experience3 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Person-centred work

About Rebecca

Rebecca Stokes is a BACP-registered counsellor based in the United Kingdom with three years' experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship strain, grief, parenting pressures, and anger. Rebecca also supports people facing life changes, career questions and neurodiversity-related concerns such as autism and ADHD.

Rebecca describes her work as person-centred, which means she treats each person as the expert on their own life. Sessions aim to be collaborative and paced to what feels manageable for the client. She may draw on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and mindfulness techniques when these fit the person’s goals.

In practice she listens for patterns that keep people stuck and helps them try different ways of responding. That can include looking at thoughts and beliefs, practicing present-moment awareness, and planning practical steps to reduce overwhelm. Conversations are direct and grounded in everyday concerns rather than jargon or tests.

Rebecca has experience supporting people after bereavement, separation, and emotional or domestic harm. She also works with issues such as body image, chronic illness and caregiver stress. Her background includes work with young people through counselling and bereavement services.

Sessions are focused on understanding what’s happening now and building manageable ways forward. If anger shows up as snapping at close people, workplace frustration, or long‑held resentment, she helps clients name the pattern and try alternatives that feel doable. To begin, readers are asked to confirm session options before booking.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Rebecca commonly uses Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Mindfulness Therapy. Client-centred work means the therapist follows the client’s lead, asks open questions and helps people make sense of their own choices and feelings. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and introduces practical experiments to test new ways of responding. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and increase awareness of triggers.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative part of the process. Rebecca will talk with each client about their concerns, goals and preferences, and then suggest which methods to try first. That decision can change over time as the work progresses and as what helps becomes clearer.

Practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into a busy week and keeping appointments when travel is difficult. Because session formats were not specified in the biography, readers should confirm the exact online options before booking. Registered or accredited professionals often find that shorter check-ins, video conversations or phone calls can suit different situations, and Rebecca will help decide what fits a client’s routine and needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesPostpartum depressionSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, anger and life changes, among other concerns such as ADHD and autism.

How would she work with anger?

Work focuses on spotting patterns that lead to snapping or build-up of resentment, then trying practical alternatives such as thought work and present-moment skills.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is person-centred and collaborative. She may draw on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and mindfulness to address thoughts, behaviours and coping skills.

What experience does she have?

She has three years' experience and has worked with adults and young people through counselling and bereavement services.

Which credentials and location apply?

She is a BACP Therapist - Registered Member MBACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

In what languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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