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Robert Paczkowski

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Robert Paczkowski, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

Person-centred counsellor - Anger and Addictions

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP, NCPS
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 390106; NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS21-00734
  • Experience7 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Polish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Anger management
  • Alcohol and drugs
  • CBT and psychodynamic

About Robert

Robert Paczkowski is a BACP and NCPS registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with seven years of practice. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, addiction, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, parenting concerns and anger. Sessions are offered in English and Polish and he accepts international clients.

Robert uses a person-centred stance that keeps the client in the lead. He listens without judgement and helps people talk through what feels most important. He offers short-term, medium-term and open-ended options and will discuss which approach feels best at the first meeting.

His work also draws on cognitive behavioural techniques to help identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns. That can be useful when someone wants practical steps for managing anger or anxiety. He uses psychodynamic ideas to look at longer-standing patterns that come from past relationships and family of origin issues.

Solution-focused techniques are used when clients want to set concrete goals and notice early changes. The blend of approaches means sessions can move between exploring deeper feelings and trying small, concrete changes in day-to-day life. Robert aims to help people reduce tension, improve communication, and address problems that feed into their anger.

He follows the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy ethical guidelines and holds an enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service check. That background informs how he works with matters like addiction, domestic violence, discrimination and LGBT related issues.

How sessions work

How his approaches translate to online work

The person-centred approach means sessions focus on what matters to the client in the moment. Online sessions can follow this same lead, with the counsellor listening, reflecting and allowing the client to set the pace. This is useful for people who want time to talk through anger or relationship concerns without a directive agenda.

Cognitive behavioural therapy is used to spot patterns of thought and behaviour that sustain anger and stress. In online sessions this often becomes practical work - identifying triggers, testing small behaviour changes and practising coping strategies between meetings. This method suits people who want concrete steps alongside talking.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss options and agree a plan based on a client’s goals, preferences and day-to-day constraints. That collaboration makes it easier to switch focus if deeper patterns or short-term solutions are needed.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals, including the counsellor described here, often adapt session length and frequency to suit practical life commitments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Polish

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, parenting issues and anger among other concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He primarily uses a person-centred, non-directive stance while also drawing on CBT, psychodynamic and solution-focused methods as needed.

How much experience does he have?

He has seven years of experience working with adults on issues such as addiction, anger and low self-esteem.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is listed with BACP and NCPS and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Polish, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are used?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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