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Sheila Hodge-Windover

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Sheila Hodge-Windover, LMFT

Oklahoma

LMFT in Oklahoma - Relationships and Anger

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, Oklahoma / LMFT01000
  • NPI1538488184
  • Experience3 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationOklahoma

About

  • CBT strategies
  • Emotion-focused work
  • Couples methods

About Sheila

Sheila Hodge-Windover is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Oklahoma with three years of clinical experience. She works with adults who are coping with stress, anxiety, relationship trouble, grief, low self-esteem, depression, addictions, and anger. Sessions are offered in English and Sheila accepts international clients.

Sheila focuses on real-life problems people bring to therapy. She gives practical feedback and helps clients talk through relationship and personal challenges. She uses straightforward strategies so people can try new ways of handling conflict and intense feelings between sessions.

Her work draws on cognitive behavioral ideas to change unhelpful thinking and behavior. She also uses emotionally focused methods to look at patterns in close relationships and the Gottman Method for couples work. Mindfulness practices and brief solution-focused techniques appear in her sessions when they fit a client's needs.

Sheila's background includes training in behavioral science and psychology. She previously worked in community roles overseas, including probation and child protection, and has experience leading programs that supported young people and families. That practical experience shapes how she approaches caregiving stress and communication problems.

Clients who come for anger concerns often focus on impulse control, resentment, and boundary-setting. Sheila helps people identify what triggers their reactions and then build concrete skills to respond differently. She also supports work on related issues such as intimacy struggles, parenting stress, and life transitions.

To start, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. Payment uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time, and cost varies with location. Confirm current session options before booking so arrangements match the client's needs.

How sessions work

Approaches used and how online sessions work

Sheila uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people identify unhelpful thoughts and try out different responses. CBT is practical and often focuses on skill-building for anxiety, depression, and anger. She also draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy to map interaction patterns in close relationships and to help people express and respond to strong emotions more effectively.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Sheila treats this as a collaborative process and discusses options based on the client's goals, history, and preferences. Together they pick strategies to try and adjust them if something does not fit.

The profile does not specify which online session formats are provided, so confirm the exact options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when helpful, and reduce travel time. Sheila will help arrange a session rhythm that fits daily life and the focus areas you want to work on.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger problems does she help with?

Sheila works with adults who struggle with snapping at loved ones, workplace frustration, built-up resentment, and impulse control related to anger.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is practical and feedback-oriented. She combines direct coaching with skills practice to change reactions and relationship patterns.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has three years of clinical experience as an LMFT working with interpersonal and individual concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LMFT licensed in Oklahoma and practices with clients in that state.

Are sessions available in other languages or countries?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

Which session formats does she offer?

The biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin working together?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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