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Tamela Polanin

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Tamela Polanin, LCPC

Illinois

Illinois LCPC - Anger and Trauma

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCPC
  • LicenseLCPC, Illinois / 180.012372
  • NPI1982255592
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationIllinois

About

  • client-centered approach
  • CBT and DBT skills
  • EMDR-informed work

About Tamela

Tamela Polanin is an Illinois Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) with 20 years of experience in mental health. She helps adults who are managing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, anger, parenting strain, grief, and other life changes. Sessions are framed around practical goals and steady support.

Tamela uses a client-centered stance that puts the person’s priorities first. She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing to address painful memories, intense emotions, and repeated behavior patterns. Her approach focuses on learning skills, noticing patterns, and practicing new responses between sessions.

Clients can expect straightforward conversations about what is happening and why it keeps happening. Tamela talks through coping tools, communication strategies, and steps for managing strong feelings like anger and frustration. She often blends skill practice with deeper work on past experiences that continue to shape present reactions.

Her background includes long-term clinical work in community settings and trauma-focused interventions. Tamela identifies personal experience with trauma, and that perspective informs how she approaches treatment for trauma and reproductive loss. She also mentions work with trauma-focused therapies such as EMDR.

Outside of practice she lives in rural Illinois with her family and raises registered pygmy goats. That personal detail is part of how she describes herself but does not change the way she structures sessions or goals.

How sessions work

How Tamela applies CBT, DBT and EMDR online

Tamela uses Client-Centered work alongside Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). CBT focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing them with practical experiments, which helps with anger, anxiety, and low mood. EMDR concentrates on processing upsetting memories so they have less emotional charge and interfere less in daily life. Client-Centered Therapy keeps the sessions focused on the person’s goals, values, and pace. Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. She will work collaboratively to identify goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what is most helpful for the person’s needs and preferences. The original biography does not specify which online session formats are offered, so confirm options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when time is limited, or reduce the need to travel on workdays. Therapists and licensed professionals can use these formats to practice skills, review homework, and process memories in ways similar to in-person care, while keeping the focus on practical strategies for managing anger and related concerns.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Illinois

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, anger, relationship and family concerns, parenting strain, grief, addictions, and related issues listed in her profile.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is client-centered and practical. She combines talking through problems with skill building from CBT and DBT and other trauma-focused methods.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of experience working in mental health settings and providing trauma-focused care.

What are her credentials and location?

She is an Illinois Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) based in Illinois.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list session formats. Confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

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