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Valentina Gasparro

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Valentina Gasparro, LCPC

Illinois

LCPC counselor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCPC
  • LicenseLCPC, Illinois / 180004519
  • NPI1669856431
  • Experience25 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Italian
  • LocationIllinois

About

  • Anger management skills
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Attachment work

About Valentina

Valentina Gasparro is an IL LCPC - Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with 25 years of experience. She works with adults on concerns such as stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, parenting strain, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, grief, sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes.

She uses straightforward, pragmatic methods in sessions. Valentina blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Attachment-Based ideas, Client-Centered methods, and Emotionally-Focused approaches. She incorporates mindfulness and solution-focused techniques and brings trauma-informed practices when needed.

In a typical session she helps people notice patterns that increase frustration and anger. She teaches simple skills to reduce reactivity, manage difficult emotions, and improve communication. Practical exercises, breathing and grounding practices, and reflective conversation are common tools she uses.

Valentina also supports people through big life transitions and complex grief. She pays attention to attachment and relational patterns that affect how someone handles anger and intimacy concerns. Work may include tracking triggers, practicing new responses, and addressing underlying shame or guilt.

She offers therapy in English and Italian and accepts international clients. Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the See online therapy options button.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps clients notice unhelpful thoughts, clarify personal values, and take small steps toward meaningful action. It can be useful for anger that comes from rigid thinking or avoidance. Dialectical Behavior Therapy offers practical skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness; these skills are often taught through short practice exercises and role-play to reduce reactivity. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns from close relationships and how those patterns influence anger and intimacy, supporting changes in how someone connects with others.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences and may combine elements from different approaches as needed. This is a joint process that focuses on what helps in everyday situations and relationships.

Confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - sessions can be scheduled around work, cut travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Some people prefer a camera session for face-to-face interaction while others choose audio-only when bandwidth is limited or when a quicker check-in suits their day. Discussing these practical details during the first scheduling step helps plan sessions that match a client's routine and goals.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Guilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-love

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyDialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Illinois

Languages

English, Italian

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues does she help with?

She helps with snapping at loved ones, workplace frustration, built-up resentment, and problems with intimacy or communication related to anger.

What is her general approach in sessions?

She combines ACT, DBT skills, attachment-informed ideas, and client-centered conversation, with mindfulness and solution-focused exercises.

How long has she practiced?

She has 25 years of clinical experience working with adults on a wide range of concerns.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is an IL LCPC - Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor based in Illinois.

Can I work with her in a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English and Italian.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

She accepts international clients; confirm session logistics and time zones when scheduling.

How are sessions arranged and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started if I want to meet her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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Valentina Gasparro

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