Counsellor profile
Alessio Tonato, BACP
United Kingdom
BACP psychotherapeutic counsellor - anger and relationships
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- CredentialsBACP
- RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 392692
- Experience7 years
- LanguagesEnglish, French, Italian
- LocationUnited Kingdom
About
- Attachment-based work
- Mindfulness practice
- Somatic awareness
About Alessio
Alessio Tonato is a BACP registered psychotherapeutic counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with seven years' experience. He offers talk therapy in English, French and Italian. He focuses on common life stresses such as anxiety, depression, anger and relationship or intimacy-related concerns.
His approach aims to increase awareness of how past experiences shape present patterns. Sessions look at what keeps problems repeating - for example control issues, codependency, avoidant patterns or impulsivity - and explore practical choices people can try differently. Alessio pays attention to attachment and relational dynamics when these affect self-esteem, trust or closeness.
He uses mindfulness to help people notice bodily signals and emotions without judgement. Somatic methods are used to bring awareness to physical reactions that are tied to stress and trauma. These ways of working are described simply and practised across sessions rather than labelled as formal tests or treatments.
Alessio frames conversations as a collaborative process. He listens for patterns around abandonment, commitment struggles, infidelity, family problems and the guilt or shame that often follows them. The aim is to help people build clearer options aligned with their life and career goals.
Practical work in sessions might include identifying unhelpful thinking, experimenting with different responses in relationships, and learning short mindfulness or body-based exercises. People who want to handle anger, move through separation, or manage career pressures will find a practical, straightforward style.
How sessions work
Working with attachment, body awareness and mindful practice online
Attachment-based work looks at how early relationship patterns shape current connections. It helps when trust, commitment or closeness feels difficult and when abandonment or attachment issues repeat in adult life.Mindfulness practice trains moment-to-moment awareness of thoughts and feelings. It can reduce reactivity to stress and support clearer choices when anger or anxiety rise. Somatic work brings attention to bodily signals tied to emotion, helping people notice and shift physical responses linked to trauma or impulsivity.
Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and together decide which methods to emphasise. That might mean starting with simple mindfulness exercises, then adding somatic checking or exploring attachment stories in later sessions.
Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and remove the need to travel. Registered or accredited professionals can tailor pace and exercises to suit someone juggling work, family and everyday demands.
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Experience
7+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English, French, Italian
Questions
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does he focus on?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship and intimacy issues, and life changes such as career or separation.
What is his therapeutic style?
He uses a dialogic, awareness-focused approach that mixes attachment-based work, mindfulness and somatic awareness to explore patterns and options.
How much experience does he have?
He has seven years' experience as a psychotherapeutic counsellor registered with the BACP.
Where is he based and how is he credentialled?
He practises in the United Kingdom and is BACP registered.
Which languages are supported in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian.
Can people outside the UK work with him?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
How are sessions paid for?
Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin a first session?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.
Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.