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Holly Lampkin

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Holly Lampkin, LMFT

Oklahoma

LMFT - Anger and Relationship Concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, Oklahoma / 10229; LMFT, Colorado / MFT.0002180
  • NPI1134446230
  • Experience7 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationOklahoma

About

  • ACT and CBT methods
  • Emotion-focused work
  • Communication skills

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is an LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist licensed in Colorado and Oklahoma with seven years of clinical experience. She works with adults on issues such as anger, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addictions, grief, body image, and LGBTQ concerns. Holly also helps people facing life changes and problems with intimacy and self-esteem.

Her approach is practical and straightforward. Sessions focus on clear goals and usable coping strategies. She uses evidence-based methods to help people notice patterns, try small behavior changes, and measure what helps over time.

Holly draws from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address thoughts and behaviors that fuel anger and other strong emotions. She also uses Client-Centered Therapy to keep conversations grounded in the person's experience, and Emotionally-Focused and Gottman ideas when relationship dynamics are central.

In sessions she helps people identify triggers, practice new responses, and set boundaries that reduce recurring conflict. She works on skills for managing stress, improving communication, and rebuilding trust after hurts. Practical tools and short-term action steps are common parts of the work.

Her background includes treating trauma, substance concerns, abandonment and attachment issues, and sexual and relationship difficulties. People who want clear strategies and steady feedback about progress often choose this style of therapy. To start, clients use the platform process to match and schedule an initial session.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Holly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice difficult thoughts and feelings and choose actions that match their values. ACT can help with anger by shifting focus from fighting feelings to taking value-guided steps.

She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot thought patterns that escalate anger and to practice small behavior changes. CBT often includes practical exercises and tracking that fit well into short weekly check-ins.

Finding the best approach is collaborative. Holly will work with each person to test methods and adjust based on what feels useful. The aim is to pick strategies that match goals, whether the focus is emotion management, communication, or changing daily habits.

Confirm current session formats before booking, as the profile does not list specific delivery methods. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a workday, shorten travel time, and allow brief check-ins when a quick strategy review helps. Discuss format preferences during the initial match so sessions can be arranged to suit scheduling and practical needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma, Colorado

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues does she address?

She helps with snapping at loved ones, work frustration, built-up resentment, and other anger-related problems listed in her specialties.

How would she approach anger in sessions?

She uses practical, evidence-based techniques like ACT and CBT to notice triggers and try new responses. Therapy also includes work on communication and relationship patterns when relevant.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Holly has seven years of experience working with adults on issues including anger, trauma, addictions, and relationship concerns.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is an LMFT licensed in Colorado and Oklahoma and lists Oklahoma as her location for this profile.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Confirm current session options before booking, as the profile does not list specific formats.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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