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Nicola Murray

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Nicola Murray, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 392558
  • Experience6 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • CBT and ACT
  • Communication skills
  • Anger management strategies

About Nicola

Nicola Murray is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with six years' experience. She sees adults dealing with stress, anxiety, anger and related concerns. Sessions focus on finding practical ways to manage feelings and day-to-day pressures.

She uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and client-centred ideas in her work. Nicola says she prefers to work collaboratively, helping people try techniques and then checking what actually helps. She explains options plainly and adapts the pace to each person.

Nicola often works with issues around intimacy, trust and ADHD. She also supports people facing grief, trauma, addictions, eating or sleeping problems and career or life changes. Anger and communication difficulties are listed among her regular concerns, and she will talk through strategies to reduce snapping or mounting resentment.

The focus in sessions is on clear tools and steady practice. Examples include learning ways to notice triggers, trying behavioural changes, and using acceptance skills to reduce struggle. Nicola combines discussion with simple exercises people can use between sessions.

Her approach aims to make emotional work feel manageable. Nicola encourages short experiments, regular check-ins about progress, and practical steps you can use at home and at work. If you plan to book, confirm the current session formats before arranging your first meeting.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions can help

Nicola uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help people identify unhelpful thinking and try different behaviours. CBT breaks problems into thoughts, feelings and actions so you can test small changes and measure what improves.

She also draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which focuses on noticing difficult feelings without fighting them and choosing actions that reflect personal values. ACT is often useful for anger that keeps getting pushed away until it bursts out.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will discuss goals and preferences and then agree on methods to try. That collaborative decision is reviewed regularly so sessions stay useful and relevant.

The biography does not specify which online formats are used, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can help fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins when needed, or making it easier to schedule sessions around work or family commitments. Registered or accredited professionals can tailor exercises and homework to suit remote sessions and help apply techniques in everyday settings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What worries does she address related to anger?

She lists anger alongside stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, and can talk through patterns that lead to snapping or built-up resentment.

What is her general approach in sessions?

She combines Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and client-centred work, and collaborates with clients to try techniques and see what helps.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of experience working with adults on issues such as anxiety, anger, ADHD and relationship concerns.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

International clients are accepted and sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm the available options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a series of sessions?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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