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Simon Barkley

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Simon Barkley, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Anger and addiction support

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 390197
  • Experience8 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Client-centred work
  • CBT techniques
  • Motivational approach

About Simon

Simon Barkley is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with eight years of professional experience. He works with issues such as anger, addiction, stress and anxiety, and supports people facing grief, relationship strain, career pressure and changes in life circumstances. Sessions are conducted in English and he accepts international clients.

He uses straightforward, practical conversations that put the client's experience first. Simon describes people as the experts on their own lives and focuses on identifying strengths and blind spots. He aims to help clients reduce distress, boost motivation and improve how they relate to themselves and others.

Simon draws on a mix of approaches including client-centred work and cognitive behavioural techniques. That means meetings often combine careful listening with concrete strategies to manage thoughts, emotions and behaviours. He also uses existential ideas to explore meaning and the choices a person can make.

His background includes a BA in Integrative Counselling and an MSc in Psychology. Over eight years he has worked with people affected by trauma, bereavement, addiction and anger, alongside other concerns such as sleep problems and low self-esteem. Practical skill-building is a common theme in his work.

Clients can expect a calm, direct style that balances listening with actionable steps. Simon encourages collaboration on goals and next steps, helping people practice new ways of responding to frustration, resentment or repeated conflict.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Client-centred therapy focuses on listening and reflecting back what matters to you. It helps when someone needs space to tell their story and identify their own strengths and priorities.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact. It usually includes simple experiments and practical tasks to reduce reactivity and manage anger or anxiety.

Motivational interviewing supports change by exploring ambivalence and building a person’s own reasons for change. It is useful for addictive behaviours and shifting motivation around habits that feed anger.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and agree a plan with the client, combining methods where helpful so the approach fits personal goals and preferences.

Confirm the exact online session formats before booking, since formats are not specified here. Many people find online work helps fit therapy into a busy life - it can make scheduling easier, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt techniques such as CBT exercises and motivational conversations to remote sessions so people can practise real-world changes between meetings.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues are supported?

He works with irritation that shows up at home or work, simmering resentment, and anger linked with addiction or past trauma.

How would he approach my anger in sessions?

Sessions mix client-centred listening with practical CBT strategies and motivational interviewing to identify patterns and try new responses.

What experience does he have with anger and addiction?

He has eight years' experience helping people with addiction, anger, bereavement and related issues, using practical techniques to reduce distress.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Does he offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Which session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified here.

How much does work with him cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin with him?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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