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Victoria Porteous

Counsellor profile

Victoria Porteous, NCPS

United Kingdom

NCPS counsellor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsNCPS
  • RegistrationNCPS, United Kingdom / VG00P07
  • Experience11 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • ACT informed
  • Attachment work
  • Emotion focus

About Victoria

Victoria Porteous is an NCPS counsellor in the United Kingdom with 11 years of practical experience. She draws on her own experiences of grief, addiction and therapy to shape how she works. Victoria is direct and conversational in sessions, and she focuses on concerns such as anger, relationships, trauma, stress and self-esteem.

She keeps sessions personable and often introduces light humour. Conversations aim to feel like an honest chat rather than a clinical interrogation. Victoria may challenge unhelpful thoughts to open up new perspectives while encouraging clearer choices and practical steps.

Victoria has worked with complex trauma survivors and partnered with a government-backed trauma charity to run counselling services during the Covid period. She also works with charity-referrals from doctors and government agencies, and has provided counselling and coaching for business leaders and athletes.

Her approach draws on therapies that focus on values, attachment patterns, emotions and practical thinking. In practice this means helping people notice what matters to them, spot unhelpful thought patterns and work through relationship and family tensions. She pays attention to communication and repeated behaviour cycles that create anger or resentment.

Clients can expect a mix of conversational listening, focused questioning and practical takeaways. Victoria also offers menopause healthcare expertise alongside counselling. She aims to be straight-speaking and honest, asking the questions needed to help people open up and move forward.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Victoria commonly uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy alongside client-centred conversations. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify their values and take committed steps, and it can be useful for anger, stress and motivation problems. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current reactions and helps people change repetitive ways of relating that can fuel resentment.

Sessions also draw on client-centred principles, which prioritise listening and honest feedback so people feel heard while exploring next steps. Finding the right approach is part of the work and Victoria will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats were not specified in the biography. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into a working day, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and reduce travel time. Registered or accredited professionals often use these formats to help people keep therapy practical and consistent with everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps people with anger, relationship and family difficulties, trauma, stress, anxiety, addictions, self-esteem and career concerns.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is conversational and direct, using humour and respectful challenges rather than clinical questionnaires.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Victoria has 11 years of experience, including running counselling services for a government-backed trauma charity during Covid.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with NCPS and works from the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I need to do to start?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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Victoria Porteous

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