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Hayley Blacker

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Hayley Blacker, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 410508
  • Experience3 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • Emotion-focused methods
  • Trauma informed approaches

About Hayley

Hayley Blacker is a BACP-registered counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with three years of professional experience. She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief and loss, and depression. Hayley also addresses a wide range of related issues including anger, addictions, self-esteem and difficulties with intimacy.

People meet Hayley to talk through what is happening in their life and to find clearer ways to respond. She works in a straightforward way and focuses on what matters most right now. Sessions are practical and conversational rather than full of jargon.

Hayley draws on attachment-based and client-centred approaches to understand how past patterns affect current relationships. She also uses emotionally-focused methods to help people recognise and work with feelings during hard conversations. Somatic and psychodynamic ideas inform work with trauma and long-standing patterns that feel stuck.

Her practice covers additional concerns such as ADHD, caregiving stress, body image, abandonment and blended family issues. She is also comfortable discussing less common subjects like kink and alternative sex culture when these are relevant to a person’s concerns. Sessions are conducted in English and international clients are accepted.

Hayley asks people to begin by selecting the See online therapy options button and completing a short matching questionnaire. That step leads to scheduling a first session under the subscription plan, which can be cancelled at any time.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape expectations of closeness and safety. In sessions this can mean mapping patterns in current relationships and practising different ways of responding to triggers and conflict.

Client-centred work focuses on listening and reflecting what a person says so they can make sense of their own thoughts and feelings. This approach helps with low mood, self-esteem and decisions about relationships.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) targets the emotional responses that drive fights and withdrawals. It helps people name painful feelings and gently try new interactions, which is useful for anger, intimacy issues and repeated arguments.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practicalities and together figure out what methods fit best. This is a collaborative process rather than a one-size-fits-all plan.

Confirm which session formats are currently offered before booking, as the biography does not list specific options. Online sessions can make it easier to fit work into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow a shorter check-in when needed. Registered or accredited professionals often find remote sessions help keep continuity when life gets busy, but it is fine to check what will work best in practice.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Psychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, depression and anger among other issues.

What is her general approach in sessions?

Her sessions are conversational and practical. She uses client-centred and emotionally-focused ways of working to help people name feelings and try new responses.

How much experience does she have?

She has three years of professional work experience in the United Kingdom.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.

What session formats are used?

Please confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.

How much do sessions cost?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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