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Helen Willoughby

Counsellor profile

Helen Willoughby, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - Anger and Relationship concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP, NCPS
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 384407; NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS23-02395
  • Experience22 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Client-Centred therapy
  • Cognitive behavioural tools
  • Mindfulness practice

About Helen

Helen Willoughby is a BACP and NCPS registered counsellor with 22 years' experience. She trained originally as a nurse and moved into therapeutic work in 2003. She works with a wide range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, grief, relationship and family difficulties, addictions and issues around sexuality and gender.

Helen runs a private practice in the United Kingdom and supports people dealing with low self-esteem, bereavement, trauma and eating concerns. She also helps clients coping with chronic illness, career pressures and life changes. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

Her approach draws on client-centred methods alongside cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness. She also uses Jungian ideas and motivational interviewing where these fit a person's needs. In practice this looks like talking through patterns, trying short exercises in session, and setting straightforward goals between meetings.

Helen aims to treat each person as an individual and begins by answering questions and any doubts people bring. She describes counselling as sometimes being hard work, and something that asks for courage and steadiness. Practical steps and small changes are part of how she helps people manage anger, sleeping problems, relationship friction and stress.

People who choose Helen can expect a calm, pragmatic way of working. Sessions focus on what is causing strain now, what might be changed, and how to build coping routines that fit everyday life. She invites people to take the first practical step and discuss how therapy could fit their situation.

How sessions work

How Helen's approaches fit into online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person's own experience and uses listening and reflective conversation to help people make sense of their feelings and reactions. It suits concerns like low self-esteem, relationship strain and anger where being heard helps shift patterns.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and uses short practical exercises to test new ways of responding. It is often used for anxiety, sleeping problems, anger management and coping with stress.

Mindfulness Therapy offers simple attention exercises to reduce reactivity and improve emotional regulation. It can help with ongoing tension, rumination and physical symptoms of stress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Helen will collaborate with each person to decide which methods to use, based on current problems, plain goals and what feels workable. She adapts as progress unfolds rather than sticking to a single method.

Confirm the exact online session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so sessions slot into work or family routines more easily. These practical benefits help people bring therapeutic steps into everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she work with?

She works with a broad range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, grief, relationship and family issues, addictions and sexual and gender matters.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is pragmatic and person-centred, combining talking, practical exercises and goal-setting to address presenting difficulties.

How long has she practised?

She has worked as a therapist since 2003, with prior experience in nursing, giving her 22 years in therapeutic practice.

Which professional registrations does she hold?

She is listed with BACP and NCPS as provided in her credentials and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I have sessions in a language other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she see clients outside the UK?

International clients are accepted, according to the details supplied.

How much do sessions cost?

Costs vary with location and are provided via a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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