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Jacqueline Rafter

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Jacqueline Rafter, LCSW, LMSW

Michigan

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Anger and Relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW, LMSW
  • LicenseLMSW, Michigan / 6801106200; LCSW, Indiana / 34009470A; LCSW, California / LCSW118581
  • NPI1770948127
  • Experience10 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMichigan

About

  • Anger management skills
  • Trauma processing tools
  • Attachment work

About Jacqueline

Jacqueline Rafter is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in California and a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) in Michigan with ten years of clinical experience. She works with adults on a wide range of concerns including anger, relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, ADHD, anxiety, and parenting challenges. Jacqueline sees people coping with career changes, caregiving stress, chronic illness, and the fallout of difficult family dynamics.

She commonly addresses problems that come from traumatic relationships, including physical, emotional, or sexual abuse. Jacqueline helps people who struggle with people-pleasing, low self-esteem, commitment and control issues, and the impact of abandonment or attachment wounds. She also works with those involved in BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture who need frank, nonjudgmental support.

Her approach blends client-centered listening with practical skills from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and targeted EMDR techniques. Scenes in sessions are direct and interactive: Jacqueline teaches tools for managing strong emotions while processing past events. She uses attachment-focused ideas to look at how relationships shape present reactions.

Jacqueline frames therapy as a collaborative effort. She and the client set goals and try specific strategies, then adjust what isn’t working. Sessions include skill-teaching alongside deeper processing when needed.

She practices from Michigan and holds licenses in MI, IN, and CA. Jacqueline’s hours vary across weekdays and she notes time-zone differences for scheduling. Before booking, clients should confirm the current session options that fit their schedule and location.

How sessions work

How her approaches are used in online work

Jacqueline draws from Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and EMDR techniques to address anger and related issues. Attachment-based ideas look at how early relationship patterns shape current reactions and help people notice repeating dynamics. CBT focuses on practical skills - identifying thought patterns, testing assumptions, and practicing different responses to anger. EMDR techniques are used to process distressing memories that can fuel strong emotional reactions and reduce their immediate impact.

Finding the right mix is part of the work. She will collaborate with the client to test approaches, track what helps, and refine the plan over time. That means some sessions may focus on skills practice, while others focus on processing past events that keep triggering anger.

Because session formats are not specified in the biography, confirm current online session options before booking. In general, remote work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - it can save commute time, allow shorter check-in sessions during a work break, or let a person choose sessions when they can be in a quieter setting. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, between-session work, and skills practice to suit the realities of a client’s day-to-day life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseAnger managementADHD

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Michigan, Indiana, California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger concerns does she address?

She works with adults who snap at loved ones, hold simmering resentment, or feel overwhelmed by workplace frustration. Anger is listed alongside relationship, trauma, and parenting concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is direct and interactive with client-centered listening. She combines practical skill-teaching with trauma-focused work.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of experience as a social worker using a mix of approaches for adults with trauma, ADHD, anxiety, and relationship issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LCSW in California and an LMSW in Michigan and practices from Michigan. Licenses include CA LCSW and MI LMSW.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what about cost?

Session cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Confirm cost details when you choose times and complete intake steps.

What should I do to begin working with her?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule your first session.

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