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Paula Appleton

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Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

Counsellor - Anger and emotional coping

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP, NCPS
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 191689; NCPS, United Kingdom / NCS22-02588
  • Experience14 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, American Sign Language
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Integrative approaches
  • BSL and SSE
  • Stress and anxiety

About Paula

Paula Appleton is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). She has 14 years' experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, depression and a wide range of life difficulties including trauma, addiction and anger. Paula works in the United Kingdom and offers sessions in English and American Sign Language.

Paula uses an integrative approach and combines methods from several counselling models. She explains ideas in plain terms and focuses on practical steps people can try between sessions. Conversations cover what is happening now and how past experiences influence current reactions.

Her practice includes work on bereavement, intimacy and relationship concerns, parenting strain, sleep and eating issues, and career stress. She also supports people facing chronic illness, caregiver stress and adjustment after major life changes. Anger and coping with strong emotions are part of the mix for clients who want different ways to respond.

Paula is experienced supporting deaf and hard of hearing people and uses Signing Exact English and British Sign Language at an advanced level. That practical skill helps make sessions more accessible for people who use those communication methods.

She follows the BACP Ethical Framework in shaping how she works and adapts approaches to match each person’s situation. Sessions aim to be straightforward and focused on small, manageable changes rather than technical labels or jargon.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Paula commonly draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) in her work. ACT helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and it supports choosing actions that match personal values. CBT looks at patterns of thinking and behaviour that keep problems going and teaches practical techniques to change them.

She treats approach choice as collaborative. Early sessions focus on understanding what matters to the client and which tools fit their goals. Paula will discuss how ACT, CBT or other methods might be used and adapt plans as the work progresses.

Please confirm the therapist's current online session options before booking because formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to schedule sessions around work, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also allow people who live elsewhere to work with registered or accredited professionals based in the UK.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, American Sign Language

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Paula works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, anger and related concerns such as sleep, eating and intimacy issues.

How would she describe her therapy style?

She uses an integrative, practical style drawing on several approaches to provide straightforward steps people can try between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

Paula has 14 years of counselling experience supporting people through a wide range of life stresses and emotional difficulties.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with BACP and NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language. She also uses Signing Exact English and British Sign Language at advanced level.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified here.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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