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Robert Winstanley

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Robert Winstanley, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP Accredited counsellor - stress and anger

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 278623
  • Experience9 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Person-centred approach
  • Solution-focused steps
  • Critical incident support

About Robert

Robert Winstanley is a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with nine years' practice across the UK and Ireland. He works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, work pressure and anger. He also supports those coping with addiction, identity and intimacy issues, sleep and eating difficulties, and wider life changes.

His background includes work in the NHS and employee assistance programmes. That experience means he is used to short-term problem work and longer conversations about underlying patterns. He has supported people from diverse cultural and neurodiverse backgrounds.

Robert describes his core style as person-centred. He places value on respect, honesty and clear communication. He combines that with Egan’s Skilled Helper Model to move from understanding feelings to practical next steps.

In practice this looks like talking through what matters most, spotting small changeable steps, and testing those steps between sessions. He also offers critical incident stress management debriefs and travels to workplaces around the UK for that work.

Sessions are aimed at helping people reduce overwhelm and find manageable ways to respond to difficult feelings such as anger or anxiety. He balances emotional reflection with concrete strategies for setting boundaries, improving communication and managing stress.

People who want direct, practical conversations about present problems and how to handle them will often find his approach straightforward and goal oriented.

How sessions work

How his approaches work in online sessions

Robert combines person-centred work with solution-focused steps and trauma-informed practice. Person-centred work means the therapist listens to what matters to the client and reflects it back, helping people feel heard and clearer about their priorities. Solution-focused steps focus on small, achievable changes and practical tasks that can be tried between sessions to reduce stress and manage anger.

Trauma-focused elements are used when past events are affecting day-to-day life; this work carefully attends to what is manageable and helps build ways to cope with intrusive memories or strong reactions. Deciding which approach to use is collaborative. The therapist and client review needs, goals and preferences together and adapt the way they work as progress is made.

If you are considering online sessions, check the current session options before booking. Many people find remote work helps fit therapy into a busy life, for example by saving travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a lunch break, or avoiding the need to be on camera for every meeting. Confirm the practical format offered and scheduling details when you arrange your first session.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and work problems, grief, anger and related concerns such as sleep, eating and addiction.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses a person-centred way of working combined with Egan’s Skilled Helper Model to mix emotional listening with practical problem solving.

How much experience does he have?

He has nine years' experience, including work in the NHS and employee assistance programmes across England and Ireland.

What are his credentials and location?

He is BACP Accredited and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He accepts international clients; confirm timezones and practical arrangements when booking.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin the process?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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